Archive for December, 2012

Abu Usaid Malik ibne-RabT’ah As-Sa’idT Radiyallahu ‘anhu narrates that while we were with Rasulullah Sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam, a man from Bani Salamah came and said: O Rasulallah!

Is there any kindness left that I can do for my parents, after their death? He said: Yes! By supplicating for them, asking for forgiveness for them, carrying out their final instructions after their death, joining ties of relationship which are dependant on them and honouring their friends.

(Abu Dawud)

Malik or Ibne-Malik Radiyallahu ‘anhuma narrates: I heard Nabi Saliallahu ‘alaihi wasallam saying:

He who has his parents or one of them alive and did not treat them well will enter Fire, and Allah will remove His Mercy from him. And any Muslim who sets free a Muslim slave is liberated from the Fire.
(Abu Ya’la. Musnad Ahmad, Tabarani, Targhib)


Anas (Allah be pleased with him) relates that the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) said:

“Whoever brings up and nurtures two young girls until they reach maturity will appear on the Day of Judgment in a state that he and I will be like this (and he joined his fingers together).”

(Sahih Muslim)


The Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) said in a hadith narrated by Anas radhiyallahu anhu:

“If a women performs her five prayers, fasts the month of Ramadan, protects herself from immorality, and is obedient to her husband, she will enter into Paradise from any door she desires.” (Hilya)

The Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) said:

The believer with the most perfect faith is the one who has best character and the one who is kindest to his wife (Sahih Muslim).

The Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) said:

The believer should not harbor hatred towards his wife. If he dislikes something in her, then surely he will be pleased with another quality in her (Sahih Muslim).

The Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace) said:

The best of you is the one best to his wife. I am the best among you to his wife (Tirmidhi, Darimi).

A’ishah Radiyallahu ‘anha narrates:
I asked: O Rasulallah! Amongst people who has the greatest right over a woman? He replied: Her husband. I asked: Amongst people who has the greatest right over a man? He replied: His mother. (Mustadrak Hakim)

“O you who believe, guard yourselves and your family members from a fire whose fuel is people and stones. Over it are ferocious and powerful angels. They do not disobey and of Allah’s orders and do whatever they are told.” [Noble Quran 66:6]

“And live with [them] in a beautiful manner. If you are then displeased with them, [then know] perhaps you like something which Allah has created abundant goodness in it (al-Qur’an4:19 ).

“ Men are the protectors of women , because God has given the one more ( strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means.”  4:34

“O, People beware of your Lord who created you from a single soul and created there from it mate and brought about from those two many men and women. And beware of Allah by whom you ask one another and the wombs. Allah is surely watching you.” [Noble Quran 4:1]

“O people of faith, save yourself and your families from the Hellfire.” (al-Qur’an66:6)

“And among His signs are that He created for you from your selves mates that you may attain calm unto them and He placed between you affection and compassion. Surely in that are signs for a people who reflect.” [Noble Quran 30:21]

“He is the one who created you from a single soul and made from it its mate that he may attain calm unto her.” [Noble Quran 7:189]

“And interact with your wives in a good manner for if you feel dislike for them, it may well be that you dislike something in which Allah places much good.” [Noble Quran 4:19]

“Men are in authority over women with that with which Allah as preferred some of you over others and with that which they spend of their wealth. So the righteous [women] are the obedient [women] those who guard in absence that which Allah has guarded. As for those from whom you detect rebelliousness, reproach them, separate from them in sleeping and strike them. If they obey you, do not desire a way at them. Surely, Allah is the High, the Great.” [Noble Quran 4:34]

“And those who say: Our Lord! Grant us from our wives and our descendents coolness of the eyes and make us an example for the people of piety.” [Noble Quran 25:74]

Hadiths from Sahih Al Bukhari

“When a Muslim spends something on his family intending to receive Allah’s reward it is regarded as Sadaqa for him”
Sahih Al Bukhari Vol. 7, Hadith No. 5351

“If you are three, then two should not speak secretly excluding your companion for that makes him sad”
Sahih Muslim Vol. 3, Hadith No. 5422

“Allah will not be merciful to those who are not merciful to mankind”
Sahih Al Bukhari Vol. 9, Hadith No. 7376

Message from Quran Words

Your Wealth & Your Children are a Test for You
Al Qur’an 63:9-11

“O you men! It is you that have need of Allah: but Allah is the One
Free of all wants, Worthy of all praise”
Al Qur’an 35:15